Fate

yo touch this topic for a bit, i have met so many people, but the question that is stuck in my pupils is why do humans connect, infected with the fear of loneliness, room haunted from the invasion of ghost's caress, see thats why we connect, to live a life filled with nothing but happiness, but most of the times we forget what happiness is, look into the eyes of a young kid, imagine what you would do, what you give up to feel real friendship, the care and tenderness that a friend can only possess, a truthful stare, smile from a distance causing you to squint from the glare, love that can come only from the heavens above, but sometimes we need more than something platonic, something erotic and exciting, but no love lacking, no compromising, just purely love, sensual, a protection not made of latex, not mainly based on sex, but based on friendship, building a foundation that can last through the ages, timeless, but sometimes it can be painstaking, love can turn to hate, the warm and welcoming plate turns cold, once a fruitful garden plagued by mold, weeds overcoming the grass, both of you give a halfass effort,but thats just experience yo, thats what it is, everyday you have to grow, don't be afraid to connect, you cannot protect yourself from life, from friendship and relationships, you want to be complete, accept defeat, accept your own losses, accept the person in the mirror for all your mistakes, errors, regrets, give yourself forgiveness, find hope in hopelessness, find love in hate, look into the person's eyes and you can tell if he/she is fake, and always look back at the great things you have accomplished and say.... this is fate